During the holidays, its like a mad rush to meet someone…but I think that is because people are not focusing on the positives of being single. Sure, it sucks going to all the holiday parties by yourself (unless there are cute single boys waiting for your amazing charm and phone number at these parties)…but normally that is not the case. Normally, you are wandering from one couple to the next, trying not to be the third wheel… and hoping that another desperately single person arrives.
But, instead of focusing on the bad, I like to focus on the good side of the dreaded SINGLE HOLIDAYS…
For instance… This week, I bought myself a cute purse I had been wanting for over a month. If I was in a relationship, I would have had to spend money on my boyfriend…not this year! Instead, I got to spend my money on me! Now, I know, this also means that I am not receiving any gifts…but lets be honest, my imaginary boyfriend bought me exactly what I wanted…I couldn’t say that this would happen with a real boyfriend.
I also, get to spend the holidays with my family. I don’t have to share my time with ‘his’ family. There is no debate, no discussion….just exactly what I want to do, when I want to. I can wear my pajamas all day long, and no future In-laws will be there to judge me! Heck yes!
On New Years Eve, I can make out with as many boys as I want…not just one. More kisses=more good luck the following year…right?
So, to all my single friends out there… Merry Christmas!!! And Happy, Kiss-full, New Year!