tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3503398505106386757.post7063197920038795142..comments2023-09-28T01:57:45.028-07:00Comments on Ugh, dating!: The Compulsive LiarUgh, dating!http://www.blogger.com/profile/02510258918830156783noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3503398505106386757.post-66637715229761845402013-11-18T13:00:30.322-08:002013-11-18T13:00:30.322-08:00I can relate too. My ex and I were together for a...I can relate too. My ex and I were together for a year and I caught him in so many dumb lies (but never confronted him). Most of them were ways to manipulate or control my feelings and/or make himself look better. He started off agreeing and praising me for my choices and values and by the end of the relationship he turned all of it around on me me, distorted the truth and listed the things he uses to support about me as reasons to leave me. He<br /><br />His stories don't add up and are one-sided and change. He is grossly delusional and has all these grandiose ideas that are crazy. But he tells the truth about core things like where he went to school, that he is divorced...anything that can be verified. <br /><br />He broke up with me and immediately was on Match. com with a profile that lies about his income (he has none at the moment), his ex-wife and his activities. <br /><br />He is truly sick.<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3503398505106386757.post-6321839602129351072013-10-09T03:44:44.934-07:002013-10-09T03:44:44.934-07:00Hi, I can relate to dating a liar and empathise.
...Hi, I can relate to dating a liar and empathise.<br /><br />I met a guy recently who flaked on our first date as he said his dad had a heart attack. I had questioned a few things he had already said earlier in the week that didn't ring quite true but wished him well and told him to get back in touch with me and let me know how his dad was.<br /><br />Two weeks later he emailed me and said he had lost his phone so he couldn't ring. He also said his dad had died. He even said he had trouble finding my email address, even though we emailed each other about 15 times and he would have had it from messaging on the dating site. Again, it didn't add up.<br /><br />Fast forward, we meet, we get on quite well and he is fairly attractive, although more overweight than average (which is what his profile said). Still it isn't a deal breaker. He tells me how gorgeous I am, so much so it became slightly creepy. We had a second meet up and he dropped me back at my house, only to come around uninvited a few days later. This was another red flag.<br /><br />All of a sudden he complains that his phone isn't working properly again and he can only email and not text or ring. <br /><br />By this point, I figure it is all a load of rubbish. Even about his dad dying, which is a terrible lie to tell. <br /><br />I emailed him last night to tell him that I knew he wasn't being honest with me and that I wouldn't be contacting him again.<br /><br />Why do people do this stuff? What is to gain?<br /><br />All the best and I hope you do find a good guy.<br /><br />H<br /><br />Nellie200https://www.blogger.com/profile/02912791699696908055noreply@blogger.com